I know some people who makes me feel uncomfortable. Well, I use to think on the causes of that feeling but I do not think it is a good measure to solve the negative facial impression as a feedback of not liking these people. What I did to solve this inner conflict is by looking at the positive side of these people and the positive side of myself.
"Human is an err". Thats what I heard since I was a young teenager. Since we are all erred, we do not expect people to fulfill everyone's satisfaction. Some people do not even like the way other's smile...a small cause for a conflict.
Yes, it is hard inside to face this kind of people but Allah is Most 'Adl. With all the patience that everyone of us has, enough to give us strength to face this kind of challenge.
I always remind myself that Allah is fair. If for example I do something to show my hatred towards someone that I think troubled me so much, it does not mean that the troubles are settled. No. It may just cause another trouble.
So, I decided to remain calm facing many kinds of people coz I may be one of them. Let Allah cure whatever desease in our hearts and makes us better persons to carry out duties and obligations in this one single life on earth.
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